It’s 9:30 AM and I’m back in my hotel room on the bed writing this post. Why? It’s too hot for pants. It’s only 9:30, and in my hotel lobby — not even outside — it’s too hot for pants. If this were Holland, that might fly, but not here. Pants are sort of compulsory. So this post is going to be sort of random, because that’s what happens when you’re voluntarily in your underwear an hour after breakfast. Also, you whine. So here goes.
Whine #1
I’ve finally had it with going the wrong way down a street 75% of the time. I mean, the law of averages says that I’d get it right at least 50% of the time. But not me. Nope. I walked past the Irish pub I had just eaten at at three times in order to find the proper street to go into town last night. It’s only two blocks from my hotel, as is the pub. I wonder if this is what people mean when they say their food is repeating on them.
Whine #2
Why are you asking if I need a motorbike into town when I just blew off the guy standing 2 feet from you? Do you think I really do need a ride but am waiting for the right guy to come along? I wish I could just spit this out, but then I realize that if they could speak decent English, they’d probably not be stuck offering rides on the street at 11 PM.
Whine #3
Beware more Asian stereotype banter: Contrary to popular belief, there are Asians that are bad at math. I know this because the street numbers do not go back and forth from one side of the street (even ones) to the other side (odd ones). It seems random. You can cross the street and go from #15 to #36. Why? Also, things will be progressing along swimmingly — 41, 43, 45 — then it will go 47A, 47B, 47C. Maybe it used to be one giant building that got split into three parts, but it doesn’t look that way. I bet someone was a bit sloshed and just skipped those three, then had to get creative. If they used calculus to determine street numbers, they’d probably do fine, but maybe because their educational system is superior and they probably learned to count at 8 months of age, they’ve sort of forgotten.
Whine #4
I want to go home. Not forever or anything, just to see my pussycats. Snugglepuss and Snuggleupagus.
Snagglepuss and Snuffleupags
Snugglepuss and Snuggleupagus. Even their freakin’ tushies are adorable. Go ahead. Adore.
I realize it’s a 45 minute drive from my folks’ house — where my car is — to the boarding place, plus an 18 hour flight, 10 hours of layovers, cabs, and ferries, and $1,500 price tag. But the heart wants what it wants, and I want my boys.
I asked at the front desk where you can buy a cat, or an “animal for the house.” Then I actually meowed. That’s what they actually call a cat — mèo — also adorable. They probably thought I was still drunk from the night before. Still, this didn’t translate, so I drew a cat face on the back of a business card. Apparently, this is not a popular tourist attraction, because they looked at me like I had just asked where I can take fencing lessons to fight the ninjas hiding in my closet. After about 10 minutes, the driver wrote down a street name where people sometimes sell them on the street, like oranges or little plastic Buddhas. People don’t buy pets here. It’s like cocaine. You sort of just have to know someone.
Whine #23
Yes, I know it should be Whine #5, but in the effort to blend in, my numbering system has stopped making any sense. They say communication is 85% non-verbal. Which means that people should understand at least 85% of what I say, even if they don’t speak any English. AND I’m Italian, and we rock the hand gestures, so that should bump it up to 90%. When I get home, I am going to wrote a peer-reviewed scientific paper debunking this theory.
Whine Q
Pointing. One finger? Rude. Two fingers? Not rude. This seems to be a universal truth. WTF? Particularly given that it’s the middle finger you add to go from “rude” to “not rude.” What people are basically doing is being rude (index finger) + telling people to go $#@! themselves (middle finger). This makes me secretly happy.
Whine &%$
I have one slot in my head for foreign languages. Not one for French, one for Spanish, and one for Russian. And whenever I’m trying to communicate with someone from any of those countries, the wrong language comes out. It’s like picking a street. You’d think I would get it right 33.3% of the time. But nope.
And finally, this is not a whine. On the television in the hotel restaurant, they had a creepy show on how potato chips are made, like those lame French shows on making cheese. Worst reality show ever. Anyhoo, the guy they were interviewing had a hairnet on — and a beardnet.
This also makes me secretly happy. Though I guess I should stop saying that if I’m posting it on the internet for all to see. And a man in a beardnet pointing with two fingers? Heaven.
Yesterday’s Massage
Speaking of another time I was not wearing pants… 234,000 VND is about $11 for a 45-minute hot stone massage for the back, neck, and shoulders. Yes, please. And at no extra charge? The buttocks. Not the part that refrigerator repairmen flash when they bend over to grab their tools. The part you grimace at when you put on a bathing suit after 35. Ladies, you know what I mean. And if you don’t — %$#@! you.
Not this. This.
It was delicious, however. Though wouldn’t you know, when I was on my stomach with my palms facing up, a stone in each palm, my nose began to itch. There must be nerve endings in your palms that go to your nose, so that every time your hands are occupied, the damn thing starts itching. I then got a clavicle rub on my back. I thought I was going to get felt up a bit, but I guess you have to pay a bit extra for that.
To recap — yesterday I got screwed by a taxi driver, spooned by a motorbike escort, and fondled by a masseuse. I think I need a cigarette!
When I read these posts before I publish them, I hear them in my own voice. This annoys me. I’m making an effort from here on out to hear them in the voice of Morgan Freeman.
UPDATE: It’s 12:18 PM and I still haven’t gone outside. I think I’m just venturing out to go eat today. My skin is 100 degrees for some reason. I’m also still in my underwear. I suppose if I’m spending a whopping $59 + taxes for this hotel room (my Hanoi room was only $29 per night!), I may as well get some use out of it.